Does covetousness motivates you?
In
December, just before Christmas, I woke up feeling
agitated. It was strange; I could feel this oppression
around about me but did not know where it was coming
from. I knew how fortunate I was as I have no young
children to provide for; I am not in full-time or
part-time education; I have no debt collectors knocking
at my door demanding money; I have no serious health
issues; I have people around me who loved me and I
am in paid employment. However, I woken up in the
early hours of the morning angry and frustrated. In
fact, all I really wanted to do was to pull the covers
over my head and sleep. I said to myself: “hopefully
when I can see daylight I will be able to face the
world”.
It was while I was under the covers that the Holy
Spirit dropped a word in my spirit as to why so many
people are suffering from depression, anxiety and
stress especially around Christmas time. Why young
men are killing themselves with guns and knives, and
selling crack and cocaine on the streets. The television
is filled with advertisers motivating people to buy
presents and gifts for their loved ones, many people
would like to be able to shop till they drop, but
their desires cannot be met due to lack of finances.
The Holy Spirit highlighted that many of the symptoms
that cause people to suffer is due to, direct or indirect,
covetousness.
Covetousness is defined in Luke 12:15 (Amplified
Version) as the immoderate desire for wealth and the
greedy longing to have more. These desires are provoked
directly or indirectly through the wish for promotion
at work or even at church where the emphasis is on
financial prosperity and material blessing, rather
than the love, presence and the power of God!
Indirect covetousness has developed through the bombardment
of the media and advertisements and the desire to
want more, not necessarily to want what people have,
but to have the desire to want what they see that
people have, either through their favourite celebrities
lifestyles or advertisements through the media. Extreme
covetousness can so blind a person’s emotions
that they can resort to deceit, treachery and self-harm
and even murder as we can see with some of the youth
today.
I realised that I, like most people who go to church,
had three main goals in life: 1. to love and serve
God with all our heart, soul and might; 2. to be debt
free; and 3. to have all their hearts desires including
health and wealth (prosperity). Yet as I analysed
these desires, I realised that it could be these very
same desires that is causing us stress. We do not
want what people have, but we are motivated to compete
and to want to accumulate wealth and possessions of
our own, but is there anything wrong with this?
If I were to tell you that I was blessed you would
automatically feel the need to be blessed too, a natural
human trait. There is nothing wrong with this desire
in itself. In fact, you would be pleased that I had
been blessed, and you would want God to eventually
bless you too, almost the same desire as Cain with
his brother Abel. The desire to be blessed can be
overwhelming which in this case of Cain led to him
killing his brother.
Today,
if you were to equate blessings with income or possessions,
then the more money or possessions a person had, then
the more blessed they would be. If my income and possessions
kept on increasing yet my brother and sisters in Christ
were still living a state of poverty, how do your
think that they would they feel? They may even feel
God did not love them or that they had sinned in someway
or their faith was lacking and their sin was blocking
them from their blessings. Yet this could be furthest
from the truth.
I believe that Christians today are slowly and unconsciously
being mesmerised into a state of envy or covetousness.
In Exodus 20:17 it states: "You shall not covet
your neighbour’s house; you shall not covet
your neighbour’s wife, or his male servant,
or his female servant, or his ox, or his donkey, or
anything that is your neighbour’s."
Technical, it could be said that we do not directly
covet what belongs to our neighbours but we are encouraged
to covet through advertising in the media. In fact,
this is the purpose of advertising in newspapers,
magazines, on television and on the radio, it is to
make people want to have what they cannot afford or
to desire those things which they believe they need
therefore find a way of obtaining it. It is like a
carrot on a stick to a donkey. The goal is always
out of reach; and if we cannot reach it, we become
depressed, angry and frustrated. We are made to believe
that our lives are incomplete without these products
or services and they become like additives in food
or even a drug. They make us crave after those things
which we do not require, usually against our conscious
will.
We are told that we are either: too fat, too thin,
too tall, too short, too dark, or too pale. There’s
always a solution out there to make us feel better
or to remedy the situation even if it means surgery.
We are told that what we presently have in our possession
is insufficient, and we should want more.
The bible tell us that we are in the world but not
of the world, but as soon as we turn on the television
or open a magazine or read a newspaper or walk through
our high streets we are being influence by articles,
talk shows, sales promotions, bill boards or posters,
telling us that our lifestyle is incomplete. This
is then compounded when we go to church and hear testimonies
of material prosperity, which makes us feel we are
lacking in someway. We are constantly trying to be
perfect and to be holy as God is holy, yet we are
destined to fail in our life time. Christians are
eager to be blessed by God but never seeming to quite
get it right because of our lack of faith, lack of
obedience or both, hoping for perfection only when
we get to Heaven.
Covetousness, albeit indirect, motivates most men
and women. It puts pressure on our marriages, our
relationships, our friendships. It puts pressure on
us at work, at church and even during our moments
of leisure time with our families. There is a physical
and psychological battle between how should spend
our time and our money.
As the singer Madonna said: “You know that
we are living in a material world;
and I am a material girl.” Imagine being married
to a material girl, with material children, in material
house, with material friends, in a material job and
in a material driven church.
However, God gives us a way of escape. It is not
the amount of money or possessions or the lack of
money or possessions that defines us in God eyes.
What does define us is how our Heavenly Father sees
us and sees our hearts! In Proverbs 4:23 it says “Guard
your heart more than anything else, because the source
of your life flows from it.” Other version states:
“Be careful how you think; your life is shaped
by your thoughts.” [GNB]
This extremely important proverb which helped me
to realign myself with God and I also believe this
will help us reduce the pressure that we are under.
We need to protect our heart from the material world
in which we live and if we find that this world starts
to infiltrate the church of God we need to protect
our hearts even more. Not harden our heart; protect
our heart!
The question that I am going to ask you is: “Does
covetousness motivates you?” Or in other words:
“Does money motivates you?”
To find out the answer, try this test at home, alone.
Turn off your television, your computer, your radio,
and remove every magazine, newspaper or book from
your sight. Take your phone off the hook and sit down
in silence. Just wait on the Lord and notice what
happens. What comes to your mind? Do you become uncomfortable?
Do you feel like you are wasting time? Do you feel
that you should be doing something? How long can you
do this before you are interrupted, you fall asleep
or something comes into your mind and you have to
act? Psalms 46:10 says: “Be still, and know
that I am God.”
All the great men in the bible including Jacob, Moses,
David and Jesus had life changing encounters with
God when they were on their own.
I challenge you to spend some time on your own to
“Be still, and know God” and protect your
heart!
© Frederick Clarke
Executive (Minister) Director
Mighty Men of Valour
March 2008

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